Even so, it isn't very practicable to spray starter fluid into it every time we start it.
The suggestion wasn't meant as a solution, but rather, as a diagnostic step - if it starts easily on starter fluid then the problem is likely to be on the fuel side of things rather than the ignition.
You need to remember, you came here seeking our assistance to resolve a problem you're experiencing - all I'm seeing from you is pushback on every suggestion - you need to get out there, conduct the tests requested and get back to us with answers. Let's say, just for the sake of discussion, there is a fuel pressure issue (which you don't think there is), and the fuel pressure bleeds down overnight (which will be revealed when/if a fuel pressure test is properly done), then it will take several seconds of cranking to build enough pressure to start & run the engine, and there WILL be enough pressure for the performance not to be affected.
Problem diagnosis is going to be a series of steps, some will bear fruit, some will not, but even those that don't provide data that can be used to eliminate a possible cause from the list.