Id say 90 percent of your problems are a blocked oil return, or blocked feed line. These lines should always be replaced when replacing a turbo.
These things run regularly at 15 psi boost, id be looking at the vane control solenoid first if its over boosting, along with a blocked line to the pressure sensor or a faulty sensor.
Boost control regulator is only one part of the entire boost control system, boost is actually controlled via the variable vanes in the turbo. Correct setup of these when refitting the turbo is paramount.