That's the one I'M talking about. My manual identifies 4 lifting points, all on the frame. I've lifted using this cross member before, with hesitation.
It might be an idea to have the front end alignment checked - if that brace is or was bent, it may impact the camber.I pulled that brace open a good half inch. Even then I had to muscle it in place.
Lifting on that cross member didn't help a whole lot, by the way.